The Connection Between Dreaming & Well-being

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Dreams have captivated humanity for millennia, whisking us away to magical worlds, heart-pounding adventures, and a rollercoaster of emotions. But dreams are far more than fleeting nighttime thrills; they are an integral part of our sleep and overall well-being. We spoke with top sleep experts about the intricate connection between dreams, sleep quality, and recovery, and how to ensure you get a solid night's rest while nurturing your inner dreamer.

Dreams, Demystified

Dreams are a complex and enigmatic phenomenon that occur during sleep. The science behind dreams is still not fully understood, even though they’ve been studied for over 100 years

According to Alex Dimitriu, M.D., a practicing psychiatrist specializing in sleep, dreams may be a product of our brains coping with the challenges of our everyday life. “Dreams remain mysterious, but there is some strong evidence that the brain does a lot of processing of feelings, rehearsing for situations, and storing memories at night,” he says. That’s why dream content varies greatly from person to person, spans from realistic scenarios to random and abstract scenes, and can offer valuable insights into our subconscious.

According to experts, dreams happen in different stages of sleep, but they are most vivid and memorable during the REM (rapid eye movement) period, which happens every 90 minutes of our slumber. It lasts just a few minutes at first, but goes up to 30 minutes later during the night. Rubin Naiman, Ph.D., a renowned sleep researcher and author, explains that “[during REM], there are periods of sleep where under the closed eyelid you can measure the movement of the eyes. Sometimes that movement is associated with looking at images in the dream.” Since we experience multiple REM cycles throughout the night, you may miss out on significant dream time if your sleep is cut short.

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How Dreams Affect Your Sleep

Dreams are a natural part of the sleep cycle and, in most cases, are not disruptive to your overall sleep quality, experts say Naiman takes it a step further by emphasizing that dreams are crucial for maintaining overall mental and emotional well-being. He points out that dreaming serves as a way to process waking life experiences, because “in the dream, those experiences are deconstructed, and they become a part of who we are. Dreaming regulates negative emotion. It's also related to memory formation,” he says, adding that “our psychological health depends on that, our mood depends on good dreaming.” 

Moreover, he notes that "we've known for over 50 years, a compromised quality of dreaming, of REM sleep is strongly correlated with mood disorders, clinical depression, and anxiety disorders." This underscores the critical connection between dreaming and mental health.

However, not all dreams are created equal. Dr. Dimitriu warns that we should be cautious about "repeating nightmares, or re-experiencing any trauma of significant intensity that either fragments sleep or results in next-day feelings of anxiety or negative moods." When dreams become regularly disruptive, seeking professional guidance is advisable.

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Dreams: The Spark for Creativity

Another intriguing aspect of dreams is their potential to help fuel our creativity. Dr. Dimitriu says that “Thomas Edison used his dreams for creativity and all of us can benefit the same way.” And Naiman, who worked for many years as a consultant to actors and music industry veterans, shares that he used “dream work to help musicians write music and lyrics” because unlike problem-solving and productivity-oriented focus of waking life, dreaming encourages receptivity and openness. That’s how the dream world helps foster unique perspectives into complex issues, often in a highly visual and imaginative way, encouraging us to step outside our comfort zones and embrace fresh possibilities.

To tap into this creative consciousness, consider keeping a sleep journal and jotting down or leaving voice notes upon waking. This simple practice can help you remember your dreams and incorporate them into your daytime reality. To facilitate that, Naiman encourages a gentler approach to waking, allowing dreams to conclude naturally. He calls that phase between sleep and being fully awake the time of grogginess. “If we linger in grogginess, we are spending time on a bridge that connects the dream world and the waking world. And we can, over time, have a much better recollection of dreaming.”

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Moreover, Naiman notes that sometimes, when we're stuck on a particular issue, a breakthrough dream can provide a creative solution. In some cases, it’s even possible to direct  our dreams towards a specific topic through a process called dream incubation, experts say. By focusing on a particular problem or question before sleep, you increase the likelihood of having a dream related to that topic or, in some cases, finding a solution within the dream.

Sleep Well, Dream Better: Actionable Strategies for Restful Nights

The ideal amount of sleep a person needs can vary, but it generally falls within the range of seven to nine hours per night. To improve the quality of your sleep and ensure that your dreams contribute positively to your overall well-being, consider adopting these practical sleep habits from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, the American Academy of Sleep Medicine, and our experts:

1. Maintain a Consistent Sleep Schedule: Go to bed and wake up at the same time every day, even on weekends. This helps regulate your body's internal clock.

2. Create a Relaxing Bedtime Routine: Establish calming activities before bed, such as reading, meditating, or taking a warm bath. Avoid stimulating activities that involve screens or bright lights. Dr. Dimitriu suggests a "tech off at ten" rule.

3. Cozy Up Your Sleep Environment: Make sure your bedroom is dark, quiet, and at a comfortable temperature. Minimize distractions.

4. Limit Stimulants: Avoid caffeine and alcohol in the hours (at least four) leading up to bedtime, as these substances can interfere with your ability to fall and stay asleep.

5. Don’t Eat Too Late: Avoid heavy meals before bedtime. If you're hungry, opt for a light snack.

6. Optimize Hydration: While it's essential to stay hydrated, reduce your fluid intake in the hours before bedtime to minimize nighttime bathroom trips. Rehydrate in the morning.

7. Reduce Reliance on Alarm Clocks: Whenever possible, aim to wake up naturally without an alarm clock. This allows you to finish your dreams and transition smoothly into wakefulness.

8. Embrace Grogginess: When you wake up, instead of rushing into your day, allow yourself to linger in the state between sleep and wakefulness. This bridge can help you remember and connect with your dreams.

9. Keep a Dream Journal: Start a dream journal to record your dreams immediately upon waking. This practice can help you remember your dreams better and integrate them into your waking life, fostering creativity.

Dream On

Dreams are not just subservient to waking life — they’re essential for your inner creativity, processing life's challenges, and promoting emotional and mental health. 

Naiman puts it simply: “We need to make friends with dreams.”

So, the next time you wake, take a moment to ponder what you dreamt about, and you might just uncover the solution to a lingering problem or the spark for your next creative endeavor. 

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